We explore or get to know her. 4.. “Physical attraction isn’t all about appearances I’d say it’s all about connection. 3 Proactive Tips for Improving Your Physical Connection. On the flipside I've been with women that I was very physically attracted to that had rude personalities. We think about all sorts of things based on our personal wants and our past experiences. But just talking to her is great, she’s funny, we have some similar interests. But at the same time I know I'm completely attracted to her personality and who she is as a person. When you want to give a new guy a chance, it can be hard if he ticks all the boxes except physical attraction. We feel. As a person, she’s perfect, she’s everything I wanted in a partner so I just, well, settled. You’re not a terrible person, I’d say like 99% of the world’s population has been emotionally attracted to someone or attracted to their personality but not physically attracted to them at one point or another. Not because you're not attracted to her, but because I think she deserves to be with someone whose feelings for her are such that they'd motivate a more careful expression of what you're saying here. All those doubts created chipped away my interest in her leaving me still physically attracted to her, but not wanting to explore anything more than just that with her. If she isn't physically attractive to me and her personality doesn't connect with mine then I can't really force it to work. Well if you to do plan on having a serious relationship, and if you too are talking about marriage, now would be a good time to stop the relationship. You can think a woman is really attractive, but if you go up to her and realize she’s a bumbling idiot who you have nothing in common with, your probably not going to be that attracted to her anymore. She's not usually the type of woman I go for. Personally personality can override "unattractiveness" if it isn't anything specific, which it doesn't seem to be from what you have said. If you aren’t physically attracted to your love interest, you don’t just have to sit around and wait for that physical connection to develop. Do looks really matter, or should personality be enough? I don't have super high standards, but she has to be at least kinda cute to me and have a good personality. I love her, but I’m just not physically attracted to her. Its possible if that’s your choice, but there’s nothing wrong with liking someone base on attraction either. If it's something staring you in the face every morning and night and you just can't get over it, then I get where your coming from, but from the girl you have described, I don't understand how you can have this issue. I started dating her mainly because I love her personality and she is very nice and pleasant to be around. When you're with the right person, I don't think you'll tell a bunch of people that she has fat on her face unless you absolutely cannot avoid it. So, if you aren’t experiencing the level of physical attraction toward your love interest that you would like, hold tight—you can get there. I'm sorry but if you plan on spending your life with a woman you need to not only be in love with her personality but you need to also have that attraction to her physically. We have a lot of fun. Its just where a person is at whatever stage in life they are in. My issue is I don't know if I'm that attracted to her physically. His personality was what initially drew me to him: He was laid-back, incredibly patient, and funny in an endearing, self-deprecating way. I never was, I mean, our sex life is decent and I don’t have any problems but she’s not what I wanted physically. This a generally how it happens for guys. 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